by
faffajane
@ 05/08/06 - 12:00:49
While sitting here at the computer last night, youngest was playing outside with friends that were being just slightly more of a handful than usual, next door complaining about noise they were making (which to be fair was not much) and playing outside her house. Told them all off several times to the point where I made youngest come indoors to stop her whingeing. Could have mentioned about the drilling at 8 o'clock the other night, the fact that 6.30 in the morning her daughters stereo woke my son up, but no not one to bear grudges thought I would leave it until a more appropriate time, i.e. when suffering from pmt and need someone to vent at rather than my family for a change!
Half way through eveing got a phone call inviting me for a drink round a friends house. Met her new bloke, very nice, a glass of wine and put the world to rights before making way home at 10.30 where I was met by hubby telling me that mum had been on the phone and that I should sit down.
Fearing the worst, thought that's it nan has died, when in actual fact it was my mums cousin that had. He was 64.
Huge shock. Apparantly no one could get hold of him, including his brother, they ring each other and speak at least twice a week. A neighbour had been asked to investigate and found him dead. So we are all waiting for coroners report etc to be done before we can lay him to rest.
So thinking about why I was so upset about it. He was so full of life, very flamboyant, the organiser of the family. He loved children, his nieces and nephews never went without, he lavished gifts on them, and to a certain extent us as well. Mum was close to him, and they spoke often. She is close to his brother as well, who apparently fell to pieces when he found out, and to be honest if anyone had asked me who would be the last one of that family to go I would have said his brother and not him. He never had a days illness, his brother, who is older, has had two heartattacks. He was always a very active man, rarely used his car, loved talking to ppl in his neighbourhood, and thoroughly enjoyed life.
He will truly be missed.
So today lots of phone calls made, though we won't know any further details until all the reports are done, then another funeral to get through which I am hoping will be before I go away.
So that will be my second death as I attended a funeral of a dear family friend earlier in the week and they say bad news comes in threes!
Been to town this morning and came home to find the post. One letter from new headteacher who has requested teaching assistants attend the training day at the start of term and that we all go to mass - oh joy cannot wait for that one not! Perhaps this could be my third piece of bad news? Will see how it goes otherwise I am going to start looking for another job. Really not looking forward to next year at all!
Sun has appeared, waiting for washing to finish so I can put it out and go and make a few more phonecalls.