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Finished

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 21:14:42

Bedroom that is:)

Can now see the floor and the bed.

Two bags of rubbish thrown out, including some shoes that I have decided I will never wear again and really are not good enough to go into the charity bag.

A bag of clothes, tied up ready to go to charity.

In my defence the wardrobes that are fitted are very tiny. They were installed by a single parent who used one as somewhere to put her dresses the other to hang blouses and skirts. In between there is a dressing table of sorts, which is no use to me as I cannot see anything without glasses or contacts so putting make up on I have to be nose against the mirror to see what I am doing:)

So dressing table is piled high with books waiting to be read.

As there is little room in the wardrobe (my wardrobe hubby has the other one) everything is squashed in or gets hung on the back of the chair till there is danger of the chair falling over. One day I will have floor to wall doors that go all the way across therefore I will have lots of room to hang my clothes:)

I still have to hoover and dust up there, but for now it will do, at least we have somewhere to sleep tonight - hubby was worried at one point that he may be sleeping on the sofa lol!

Oh and I need somewhere to store my shoes. I have quite a few, though I always end up wearing the same ones:oops:

Never mind one day it will all happen:)

So now I am going to watch the Mummy, one of my favorte films, and have a lovely cup of tea.

I really wished I hadn't started this

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 17:52:06

Started on the bedroom.

Thought I would do an area at a time.

Now there are piles of stuff all over the floor, the bed and the landing.

Really wished I hadn't started it now:(

This is not a meadow, its a hill!

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 15:38:23

We did venture out with the dogs, them getting excited and tangled up as we tried to get them in the car and drive to the park in town.

We arrived, fortunately younger dog was not sick as is customary for him to be, park full of screaming kids and police obviously making their presence felt.

"Let's not go here" said Simon and looked towards the meadow opposite "Quieter there," he says pointing so off we headed to the meadow.

Why oh why call it a meadow though when in actual fact it is a very steep hill! Laddie the grey started off well but by the time we got halfway up he was lagging behind on his extending lead and puffing and panting like a goodun! How he ever won races I will never know the least exertion makes him breathless.

We struggle on and on the other side is another park which we walk around. Now both my dogs are on extending leads. Baron is ok to be let off but he gets excitable and despite extensive training thinks everyone is his friend so will jump up at them in greeting, consequently unless we are somewhere where we are unlikely to come across another human being he stays on his lead. Laddie is totally unpredictable. He can seem as though he has taken no notice of the squirrel in the distance, but if he gets it into his head to chase it we have no chance of getting him back - o-40 mph yes definately - I cannot run that fast - so he stays on extending leads.

So tell me why oh why if you see two dogs both being controlled by their owners do you let your 5 dogs run up and down and around them in a little pack and think it is sweet! It isn't! It is annoying! I was standing still for a reason. Both dogs were held close to me ( I have the grey , Simon has the Whippet), both being held tightly so they wouldn't attack and you let your dogs come and sniff and make silly noises while you sit with your nine children and play games - yes I am going to get annoyed, you were lucky the one that sniffed me didn't get kicked!

It makes me mad when ppl don't control their dogs, sorry, but it spoils it for the rest of us that do!

So there we are walking round the park, one dog having a mad fit and acting like a puppy picking up bits of trees and attacking them, the other huffing and puffing and getting slower and slower by the minute. Climb another hill to get to the top of the meadow, dogs do their business, Simon (bless him) clears it up and puts it in the bin muttering about how smelly it all is and why can the not do it in the same place so he doesn't have to walk around! Richard is being a pain in the backside - "oh look its a bench I need to sit down" (he is younger than any of us for gods sake) and laughing at Laddie getting tangled around Baron.

Came down the hill heading towards the car when they both spot a flock of birds. However I have seen them and Simon and I real the dogs in so that they don't get any ideas about chasing them!

Get in the car eventually and head back home where both dogs are now lounging on the floor fast asleep with a smile on their faces:)

Serious post, just for a minute

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 12:52:03

http://bringontherevolution.blog.co.uk/

The above link, courtesy of Paddy, has had me thinking over a few things in the last 24 hours.

Now I am not normally a political person. I have my views, I rarely share as they might offend. Like religion I tend to steer away from discussing politics. We all have views, we all have opinions and sometimes trying to have a discussion about them tends to cause upset or makes someone angry along the way.

Today I am going to express some of my thoughts and feelings. You may not agree, that is fine, it is only my point of view.

1) Carers - As some of you know my mother gave up work to look after her mother. She took early retirement. Her house is small and Nan lives/sleeps/eat/drinks in mum's living room. There is a small kitchen where mum spends most of her day washing the clothes and bedsheets that nan has messed or wet. A careworker comes in 3 times a day to help change nan. Nan gets attendance allowance (which by the way is under threat of being taken away)but not the full whack because of a pension she gets from my grandfathers firm as well as the state pension. Mum gets her own pension and that is all. Out of that she has to pay for the careworker, pay her mortgage and insurances, council tax, shopping, bills. There is never enough money.
Mum is a proud person, so is nan. Mum reluctantly applied for benefits that carers should be able to get and got turned down. She hasn't reapplied, she is too proud to do so, her theory being if she was entitled then she would get. We have since found out that if she did reapply she probably would get because almost 90% of people that apply the first time are turned down and have to appeal.
Why?
If they are entitled to it in the first place why not give it to them, why make people jump through hoops for it?
why make the forms so difficult to fill out?
We are talking about two people here who have paid NI contributions and taxes all their working lives. Two people who never, ever have claimed from society. Like thousands of other people out there, good honest working citizens, they have never ever asked for help from anyone yet when they need it the most, they have to fill out forms which are difficult to understand and if not filled out correctly could be classed as a given misleading information - basically they are shafted. Yet if mum had put Nan in a home it would have cost the state thousands of pounds to look after her (Nan has no assets), a cost which mum is saving them by looking after her herself.

And don't get me started on people who have to sell their homes to pay for their care or the fact that people who have been happily married for years are separated because there is only room for one loved one not both!

2) Education Over the years successive Governments have made changes to the national curriculum that just defies belief. I am all for children getting a variable education so they don't get bored but there are better ways of doing it. Children are taught several ways of adding up, subtracting, multiplying, dividing (though to do long division nowadsys you need to do all of the others to get the answer trust me). Not enough time in primary school is spent on learning times tables. Some schools I admit still try and do it parrot fashion, but others find there isjust not enough time to go over it. Lots of methods of doing basic sums, but not enough time is given to allowing children to learn one method till they can do it automatically before moving onto another method. Confusion often reigns in maths classes in primary school. We have a lot of Polish children arriving in our school. Most of them start school in their own country at the age of 7. Remember in some parts of our country children can start full time education at the age of three. Some of the Polish children that come to us may have only been in school for a year yet their mental maths ability is far superior to the ability of our children. A maths test I did with the class a few days ago, 40 multiplication sums to be completed in two minutes. 3 members of the class managed to do 20 in them 2 mins, majority only did 15, a few only 10. The polish children though did all 40 and got them all correct in that 2 minutes!

English - again they don't get to spend enough time on the basics before they move on to more complex work. You teach a child to read using one method when the Education department comes along and says it isn't working now teach this method. A lot of children leave school, not being able to understand what they read, that is if they can read at all. How to construct a sentence, the amount of children that cannot do something as simple as put a capital letter and punctuation in the correct place yet we expect them to know how to right a jounalistic report, a myth, a legend, a non fiction report by the time they leave primary school. The confusion between the words are and our - this is are house instead of this is our house. Confusion between the spellings stationery and stationary. Basic things like this are rarely taught and if they are, then they are not reinforced.

Children do not have fun at schools nowadays, they are not allowed to be children. They cannot play. Running around in some school playgrounds is banned because someone might get hurt and we might be sued as a result. Children are always having to meet targets. As teachers we are always target setting children and filling out paperwork or crying into our teas because only half the class managed to meet their target this year!

It has got worse, it will get worse. If you managed to read this far then thank you for taking the time to do so. I could go on about other things that really irritate but for now this will do.

Home again Home again jiggity jig

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 11:51:01

Yes I survived town.

To be fair considering there were vearious activities going on in town, including air brushing tattoos (whatever they are but my Pilates teacher is doing them) town was surprisingly empty.

The local radio station were there as well organising an easter egg hunt, though I didn't see many children taking part, only adults.

Standing in HMV trying to find a CD Hubby was waffling on about yesterday I overheard the following conversation:

Girl 1: But I don't understand

Girl 2: What don't you understand

G1: He wants me to go down on him which I don't have a problem with but why call it a blow job when you suck. There is no blowing involved.

The poor guy trying to put some Cds onto the racks nearly wet himself I swear as he walked away, shoulders shuddering, and I tried my best not to smirk though eye contact was made with girl one as she was trying to shut her friend up with embarrassment!
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Managed to buy some salad goods in Marks and Sparks so hopefully I can try and stay on the straight and narrow. There is left over lasagne for tea tonight as only Nig and I eat it, which means having to find something to cook for the kids tea. Dogs are harrassing Simon to take them out to explore the street, but he is hanging the washing out for me first. Once I have sorted out my bedroom which really needs to be done, I may take the dogs and the kids for a walk around the park in town.

Right better get a move on:)

Make your own Hollywood sign

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 07:53:47

http://www.glassgiant.com/hollywood_sign/?l1=BITS++AND+PIECES&size=300x144

hollywood_sign

Halfway through the week

by faffajane @ 04/04/07 - 07:28:03

The moon was shining brightly yesterday, i caught her trying to hide behind some trees, but she was bright and the sky was cloudless so you couldn't fail to see her.

I told her my problems and this morning I notice she is still there, still hiding behind the trees but as I look out of the window from where I sit I can see her, almost as if she is watching!

OF course the sun is trying to catch my attention now, but really isn't succeeding. A few dark clouds are looming so the sun has some way to
go!

It is a bright day despite the clouds looming in the sky. Looks like it will rain later though I hope not, I think we have seen enough of that lately.

It is peaceful here for now. Dogs have been fed so have taken themselves back to bed, Nigel has headed off to work, the kids are still in bed. My plans for today are to head into town and get some money out for the shopping trip next week for our outfits and to pay a couple of cheques in. Will see what else I will do when I get back depends on how busy it is in town!

Right better get myself sorted and ready to face the day ahead. Have a good one!

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